Earthquakes are confusing.

So, yesterday I was in the shower. Getting ready for work. I got out. Got some tp to clean off some of the little boy nastiness I noticed on the back area of the toilet. As I was leaning over, the sink beside me started making a funny noise. Water draining?

Then someone was at the door. Wiggling the nob and trying to get it. Kids? Not a moment of privacy for a mom, right. But why weren't they just opening it? Then Jon opened it. Surely he doesn't have trouble opening doors. And he said, "are you doing something in here?"

Apparently he and William had been sitting on our bed and it had been shaking. And he wondered why in the world I would be jumping up and down in the bathroom!?! (Callie was in her bedroom playing on her bed and said it had started wiggling.)

Then we thought, maybe a big truck had driven by? Sometimes big trucks shake the house....a little. The thought of an earthquake did cross our minds, but we dismissed it immediately. And, with our house being old, we wondered if something was happening. (Lately, I am paranoid that our slanty floors are getting worse, although they're really not.) Jon checked around the house and in the basement and didn't notice anything out of the ordinary.

Then I got the brilliant idea to check our local news website FB. And, sure enough, friends had started posting about an earthquake. And then we figured out it really was true. I hadn't felt a shake per se, but just noticed things rattling.

Then Jon took the kids to an appointment and I went to work. On with the day.

Work was horrible and crazy, by the way! Worst day I've ever had in the ED. Only day I'd ever thought about returning to med/surg. When I arrived there were 4 ambulances parked out back (the most I've ever seen at once is 2) and the helicopter was just taking off. Super busy, but not even earthquake related, it's just been busy around there lately. We started a new doctor order entry system yesterday as well and therefore had LOTS of extra tech support around. The computer system wasn't bad, it was all the people around and the extra noise that was stressing me out! Oh, and the doctors being stressed, therefore 1 of them seriously yelling at me and the other doing it in a round about way. Not lovely.

Oh, but this is about the earthquake, not work. Here's my favorite news report about the quake.

"VIRGINIA QUAKE~~BREAKING NEWS!!! The USGS has determined that the epicenter of the Va earthquake was in a graveyard just outside of DC. The cause appears to be all of our Founding Fathers rolling over in their graves."

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William and the Monster Trucks

This is the face of a boy excited to see a bunch of Monster Trucks.

We passed by (and turned around to visit) the home base of Grave Digger. (Sorry Grandmas, but we usually do call it by a different name at home.) And Callie was only smiling because I told her she either had to smile or get out of the picture.

It was fun to see the trucks. He especially liked the orange one. (Making the Grandmas happy)

And this is the face of a boy RIDING in a Monster Truck!!

It was fun! ...for all of us. : )

While we were there he asked, "Can we go see Monster Jam for real sometime, not watch it on tv, but go there for real and see it for real?" .....And it will be even so exciting Sunday when he finds out we are going to Monster Jam!! for REAL!

Picture Post

Callie hid under the picnic table to try to catch a bird. We told her she was allowed to keep it and bring it for show and tell if she caught one. Behind her is a pile of sticks. The kids like to pretend to build a fire. So, they gather all the sticks in the yard and put them in a pile. It's a wonderful game!

William had a weeks worth of lessons on Dr Suess. The last day was dress up day.

The kids learned to play Skip-Bo.

We're all enjoying green smoothies.

As a reward for a good week at school (no blue or red marks...actually all green with only 2 yellow!!!) we went bowling.

Each of the kids got at least one strike. This is William's response to one of his.

This is how she watches her ball go down the lane, while slowly walking backward toward the chairs.

He's just cool like that.
And this afternoon the kids were playing in the yard.

The trucks got back to work. Both kids still love the sand box.

And then, after supper, we had a little fire and the appropriate snacks, of course.

William learning to sit on his "honkers" as Callie calls them. (Haunches)

William's Lost and Found Story

It has taken me this long to put this story into writing. I have mostly neglected the blog since then. Sorry. It was a rough day. Here goes.

So, here is the story behind this picture and the post titled 'Lost and Found' back on May 28th last year.

It was 7:30 am. I had planned on getting up early to exercise, but I didn’t. Callie had climbed in bed with me and I heard William downstairs getting into the cupboards. Then I heard him open and close the door to our mud room. I rolled out of bed, wondering what he was doing. Assuming he was heading out to the garage to ride his bike or something. I used the bathroom, peeked in his room, thinking he maybe had gone back there and not out into the garage, he wasn’t in his bed, and I hadn’t expected him to be there. Got downstairs, no William. Asked Callie where he was (yes, the reliable 4 year old who was with me at the time). She said he was in his room. So, I thought maybe he had been playing on the floor or was buried in his blankets and I just hadn’t seen him. Went into the laundry room, put a wet load in the basket to hang outside and started putting another into the washer.

And then it occurred to me, this just wasn’t adding up. A bit of sudden panic while I ran upstairs. Not in his room. Not in my room, or Callie’s. Back downstairs, not there. Not in the garage. But the garage door was unlocked…and his shoes were gone. More panic. Went outside yelling, looking around at all the usual, and some unusual, places. Sandbox, shed, garden, field out back. Called Jon (because he could be of help from 1.5 hours away at work). Re-checked the house quickly while grabbing keys and Callie. Hopped in the jeep and drove about ¼ mile down each road in each direction. Starting with the usual path we take for walks. Ending with the direction of the house of a neighbor who he had just met the previous day. Nothing. Returned home, called police while checking the house again. The police arrived, one checked the back lot (he later complained that his boots were wet and had grass sticking to them) and one went with me in to check the house again. I knew he wasn’t there, I didn’t want to go back in, but I understand why. We checked the first floor and were in the hall upstairs when she got the radio call that they had found him!

We went back outside to wait. It took a while, Callie wanted to chat with the police officers, I cried a little. They pulled up with him in the back seat, told me I could open the door. I didn’t really know what to do, squeeze him, yell at him, not sure. But I didn’t have a chance, he got out of the car, threw his hands in the air showing off his pudding cup he had and yelled, “I got to go for a walk, and have pudding and ride in a police car, and there’s more police!!!!!” He was SO EXCITED about his WONDERFUL morning!!! Best morning of his life!!!.....worst of mine. So, how do you convey to him that this was wrong and can never ever happen again? The young 20 something police officer said, “Now don’t run off anymore.” Not enough to put the fear of the police into the child, but nice try.

Unfortunately, it gets more fun...We went in to have breakfast. I was in too much shock and allowed him to have that pudding for breakfast. I was still torn between so glad to have him back safe and sound and how do I scold him harsh enough? After breakfast we had to go into town, so we stopped by the home of the people who had found him...or more like whom he had found. They were sweet. They gave the kids each another pudding, more rewards, and invited us to come over in the summer and play with their 5 year old grandkids they would be watching. And then they showed us the man’s huge model train set in the basement. William was in heaven!

So, in the next few months we got bits and pieces of the story from William. He had wanted to go for a walk to his friend Brenton’s house. He almost made it. Brenton lives 1 mile away, he got 0.9 miles. On our very busy 45mph road....on which people, of course, drive 55. He, at one point, ran across the road right in front of a truck. He said, “I went like this (zoom one hand one way) and the truck went like this (zoom other hand perpendicular to and across first arm)” !!!!!!!! Callie asked him, “didn’t you see the truck coming?” to which he answered, “yes”. And she and I, at the same time, said, “then you should not have gone!” Also, from what we can gather, he stopped at at least two other houses. He told the people he was going to school and they told him to go home. He was looking in peoples’ mailboxes (right by the road). And he saw the police go by (which was so exciting for him) and when they went by, “I spied on them, I hid behind a tree.” That’s what he said, in a sneaky voice. He told me they were going to an emergency and was surprised when I explained that HE was the emergency. So, when he finally got to this couple’s house, he didn’t knock or ring the door bell. The man was walking by the door and noticed his head sticking up over the window. He thought that was strange that his grandson was there and wondered where his son-in-law was. He opened the door and said, “Honey, I think you need to come look at this,” to his wife. They told him to come in, he politely took off his shoes and asked where he should put them. They asked if he was hungry, of course he was. They tried to figure out where he lived, there was a house across the field with young kids they thought he may have come from. Then they called the police who put it together quickly who he was and where he belonged. We are so thankful for this kind couple! She is a retired principal and he is a retired teacher. So thankful!

That day William and Callie learned our address and phone number and William decided he wanted to go live with his new friends when Jon and I die.

It's been forever since I've posted

Life has been so busy!

My heart still aches when I drive past William's school while he's there. I still want to go in and pick him up. But he is loving school. He's doing well too. He's a smart kid, so he's got that part of it down. But he's a 6 year old boy....so the sitting still and listening and following directions part doesn't always come as easily. He's getting better about it, but still has at least one problem every day, some bigger, some smaller, and some hilarious. Friday he got a warning for licking the ginger bread house supplies....graham crackers and frosting. : )

Callie loves preschool. She enjoys crafting. Coloring, cutting, gluing, anything along those lines. She tries to be so grown up sometimes. The things she says crack us up. She sighs in disgust or disbelief at her brother's antics (or mine or Jon's). Too funny.

I started working in the emergency department. It's a whole new world down there. I'm so tired after a day of working! Constantly on the move, constantly busy. I'm learning so much though and really enjoy it.

Jon is home now. Taking over the efforts of attempting to keep up with kids and housework. He actually does a pretty good job at it too.

Today was our "Pennsylvania Christmas". Lazy morning, open gifts, breakfast, visiting friends, lunch at Olive Garden and a few other errands. Nice day over all. Didn't get to go bowling like we had hoped, but maybe over Christmas break.

I didn't cry! Now what?

I didn't cry! Now what? Sit on the porch and wait for the bus to drop him off?

Surreal!!!

Went to W's Kindergarten Open House this evening!!! What passed through my mind on the drive there was the drive we took to the hospital when he was born. Can't believe he'll be in school starting Monday!! He'll be 6 on Tuesday. I'm glad I got to keep him home that extra year. : ) But he is SO EXCITED for school to start!!!

Miss Beuhner (Not to be mistaken with Beuller.....Beuller?)

Yesterday and today

Relaxin'

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Sitting on the jeep. Watching the bailer.

Sitting on the jeep. Watching the bailer.

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And the kids...it's what they asked for.

Delicious breakfast!

Lost and found

Lost and found

The Big Project update

So, remember this? 40 boxes of kids clothes?

It was a bigger project than expected....here is the story....

I worked all week, slow but steady. Going through every box. Slimming down. Getting rid of some really cute clothes. Some tough choices. Monday I had 35 boxes done, only 6 boxes being kept. All those keep boxes were jammed full of folded sweet clothing. I had all the girl and boy 12 months and under done. Girl 2t-4t done, folded but not yet in the boxes. But 2t was also organized with a pile set aside to go to a dear friend who is currently taking care of her 2 grand-daughters. The only thing left was 2t-5t boy, which was only about 5 boxes.

And then I had to work. Monday evening. Jon put the kids down for bed....Callie was asleep, William was in bed and heading toward sleep.....Jon went out to mow....and returned to William running back up to bed as fast as he could ....and THIS......

ALL boxes unloaded!!!! ALL over the room!!! Things thrown across the room. Socks behind the tv stand and on the book shelf. The floor covered a foot deep in unfolded clothing.

Jon told him I would be sad....and I would probably cry. He called me at work to warn me...he came nowhere close to warning me for what I would see. I came home from work at 11:30 pm. Spent a little time in the kitchen, unwinding and preparing myself. Jon had said he thought the boxes may have just been dumped, so may still be in some order. Um, NO! All unfolded, all thrown. I looked for dents in the walls as the baby monitor and bottles had been thrown to the other side of the room. I was livid!! I cried. I threw clothes. I got the poor boy out of bed and lectured. I drank. I stayed up until 3 am just putting all the clothes in the appropriate sizes. Not folded, not organized. Just sizes. Not happy. As I was working on this. If I looked up and around the room, I would get overwhelmed at the huge mess and cry again. I wanted to just put everything in a big pile in the front yard and let people take it all. The only way I got through was to look down and do one item at a time.

The next day...(surprised he survived the night?)...he didn't remember me getting him up. Probably a good thing since it wasn't my finest mommy moment. And he argued with me for 10 minutes that he did not know that what he was doing was wrong because .... "It's not on the list". Not on the list of "wrong" things....aka the 10 commandments that is posted on our door!!! Are you kidding me, Boy??? There were so many wrongs here....we don't throw things in the house, don't mess with mom's stuff, multiple times throughout the previous week I had made them go away from the clothes so they wouldn't mess them up, he was supposed to be in bed....etc! But no, "it's not on the list". ....Honor your Mom and Dad, perhaps?....Oh, and he didn't see me cry, he did ask to see if that had actually happened.

Yard sale came and went. But the boxes around my living room of unfolded, unpacked clothing remained. I could not bring myself to continue. It took Jon helping me to finally tackle all the folding and packing again. And now, it is done! Even more of an accomplishment than I planned on. Lovely, all organized...twice. Can you tell? This...

....organized and decreased to this...

And he survived....and we still love him...and I'm not sure if he learned his lesson.

Next project, make the green bench brown....don't think the kids can do much to this...but we shall see.

Mama's snack time!